Good leadership is more than just treating everyone equally – it's about building the relationships your team members need.
Leadership is often treated as a fixed identity: either someone is a “leader” or they are not. In creative hubs, however, leadership is a relationship rather than a position. Not everyone on your team needs the same direction, the same level of responsibility, or the same form of control. Sometimes, the same person may need different forms of leadership at different times. Situational leadership is the ability to see this difference and adjust your approach accordingly.
Some team members take ownership of their work; they take responsibility, they show initiative. They should not be over-intervened, but trusted. Some have not yet found their direction, and need support or reminders. They want to be constantly motivated, guided, and even accompanied. This should not be seen as a “deficiency”, but rather as a development process. A good leader is someone who can sense what someone needs.
Situational leadership reminds us that one leadership style does not fit all. This approach has two main axes:
Willingness: How eager, determined, and motivated is the person to do this task?
Competence: Does he/she have the knowledge, skills and experience to perform this task?
The relationship between these two axes is a personal journey. Sometimes someone is very willing but not experienced enough. Sometimes they have full experience but their desire is exhausted. The form of leadership cannot be the same in both cases.
A good leader learns not to be at the same level of closeness with everyone, but to be able to relate to everyone according to their needs. Some move forward on their own, only wanting space in between. Some need to be met with frequently. One wants a joint decision, the other opens up more when left alone. Here, leadership becomes not empowering but noticing, not intervening but listening.
This tool makes you question not only “what kind of person you are” as a leader, but also “how you recognize who needs what.” Because even with the same team, you cannot always lead in the same way.
How to use it?
Visualization: Peter Boolkah
You can start using this model by trying to understand what kind of leadership your team members need. To do this, you can ask yourself these questions while thinking of a team member:
“How enthusiastic is this person about this task?”
“Does he have enough experience, or does he still need support?”
“Does the type of relationship I am offering him meet his current needs?”
The situational leadership model suggests thinking about two axes of directive and supportive behavior when leading a team member. Four basic relationship styles emerge from the intersection of these axes. The following styles can provide an intuitive reference for understanding each situation:
Referring
If a person is inexperienced but very motivated, it may be necessary to clearly demonstrate what to do. This means breaking tasks down into smaller pieces, planning the process together, and providing intense companionship. This style reinforces the person's motivation and helps them find their direction.
Coaching
It is important to think with someone who is willing but still needs direction, and to be both supportive and explanatory. Roles and responsibilities are clearly explained, and ideas and contributions are also considered. Although decisions are often at the leader's discretion, communication is two-way. The aim is to support the person in becoming able to make their own decisions over time.
Supporting
When working with someone who is experienced but unmotivated, it may be necessary to give trust and create space for joint decision-making. This style sometimes requires just listening to bring the person back into the process, and sometimes it requires noticing when small hesitations emerge in certain tasks. The important thing here is not to make the person feel inexperienced by over-controlling them, and to make the trust in their experience visible. Thinking with open-ended questions is an important part of this style.
Delegating
If the person is both competent and willing, the main thing the leader needs to do is step back, trust, and accompany when necessary. These people are able to make decisions, run processes, and solve problems. Leadership here does not involve running, but holding the environment and creating the necessary space. Delegation does not mean that the leader remains outside the process; although the running is with the team member, there is an open relationship of thinking together in the decision area.
These four areas do not present fixed roles. The same person may need coaching on one task and be fully delegable on another. Therefore, it is better to use the model as a lens for understanding and adaptation rather than a classification.
If you’re wondering why you keep getting into similar cycles with certain team members, this model can help you see the structural causes of those cycles. For example, replace the question, “Why isn’t this person taking responsibility?” with a constructive question like, “Is he or she supported enough, or does he or she need clearer direction?”
The basis of the situational leadership model was developed by Paul Hersey and Ken Blanchard. This tool, included in the Toolkit, has been simplified and adapted to the context of the creative hub based on the summary publication at this link .
Where does it make a difference?
Changing your leadership style is not an indecision; it is the ability to observe, use intuition and rebuild the relationship. Because good leadership is not just about giving direction; it is about finding direction together.
The situational leadership approach is a powerful foundation for understanding how to start when a new person joins a team, how to accompany a team member who is experiencing fragility, why a long-time employee loses motivation, how to make room for someone who is doing a good job but is closed in communication. It is also possible to carry out this process not only through the leader's eyes, but also by talking with the team members. Listening to who needs what from them, and establishing this awareness together, transforms leadership into a relationship.